.A grown-up with a chaotic add-on type, occasionally described as anxious-avoidant attachment style, struggles to count on individuals. Commonly in relationships, their actions is irregular and chaotic. Normally, this add-on style cultivates when one's primary caretaker is both a resource of affection as well as worry throughout their childhood years. In the adult years, Viviana located herself following her mother's hot-and-cold actions in her own romantic partnerships. "I'll be actually in to a person as well as when they're actually right into me, I feel like, 'Okay, you require to go away, please,'" she claims. "The moment they go away, I resemble, 'Wait, please come back. Love me.' And after that I'll carry out everything to keep their interest. I see it along with my mom, as well. I desired to join her. Yet when I got near her, that is actually when the waistband will come out.".